First, VC isn't a "finance" job even though it may look like it.
If you don't want to work crazy hours, then you're best looking at finance jobs outside of NYC or the top tier funds/firms in SF or LA. For the most part, count on working long hours for most finance-oriented jobs that are based out of New York, SF or LA -- it's not that you're doomed to always work 80+ hours a week, but regardless of whether you're working long hours or traveling a lot or entertaining clients/investors/LPs outside of the office when you'd rather be at home with your family/friends, there is an implicit expectation that your work almost always takes priority over everything else in your personal life. Instead, in cities like Durham, Miami, Minneapolis, Pittsburgh, San Diego, Dallas, etc. where regional or mid-market firms may be based, you may have a better chance of working in company cultures that are a bit more relaxed.
It's less about "finance" and more about which part of the country you work. A similar dynamic exists with consulting or any other industries for that matter.
Alex Chu
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